Tuesday, May 31, 2011

Tico Tuesday, May 31st

It was an amazing weekend. I think my favorite part was the Noche de Gala we had at the Camp for moms who have children in Roblealto, but the impromptu harp, clarinet and cello concert trio concert at our house was pretty darn cool too.

This weekend I had the privilege to serve as a cabin leader for 7 moms from one of Roblealto's child care centers. It was amazing and beautiful to see how God has been working in their lives. In Roblealto God is not only transforming children, but parents and entire families as well! Everything was very well planned by the Christian Ed director and members of the interdisciplinary teams (social workers, psychologists, etc). I think my favorite activity was the Noche de Gala when we all dressed up and had a special dinner. In the talk afterwards the moms learned about Esther and how she was a VIP woman (Valiente (brave), Importante y Preciosa). They all received a little treasure box and when they opened it they saw God's treasure: themselves! It was so great! More on the blog!

May we all remember this week how important and precious we are to God!

Carrie

PS The impromptu concert at home was for Ana's birthday party Sunday night. We have some talented friends and family members!

Camp for Moms was a beautiful mix of fun, sharing, teaching and lots of self-esteem boosting. The Gospel was clearly presented a number of times, we did a fun activity dressing the “new woman” based on Ephesians 4, a “rally” with different stations that walked woman through learning of God's love, letting go, learning to walk with Christ, etc, there was a bonfire the first night, I got to lead a devotional with the moms in my cabin, and there was time to swim, rest and pick tons of ripe mangos! It was a really special, fun time.

I was excited to be a cabin leader and serve in camp, but when I arrived and met a whole bunch of moms whose children are in the Bible Home, I started to feel a whole bunch of things I didn't expect. I'm often tempted to judge these women- how could one be so negligent, so disrespectful, how could someone reject their own flesh and blood? How could someone be so selfish and violent, so heartless and cruel? Part of me wanted to shake these women and knock some sense into them, part of me just wanted to stare at them in shock because these women really are real, and I just didn't know what to think. But then I was able to just be SO GLAD they were there! One mom whose children I have promised myself to adopt if she abandons them was there with her mom (who has taken more responsibility for the kids). They explained she was just starting to get more involved. PRAISE GOD! I was delighted at how many of the moms at camp had already come to know Christ. It is so easy to look at a family or at a person and think they are pretty much a lost cause. Thank God He doesn't do that with us! I know I often lack the optimism and the faith to believe God can truly change a life. But, I have recently seen it in my own life and I am seeing it in the lives of not only the children, but also the families who are a part of Roblealto's programs (we have workshops and Bible studies for them). It is real. God is doing awesome work and I am honored silly to be a part of it.

God is so awesome and big and powerful and loving!!! Saturday night we asked the women, “What does God think of when He thinks of you?” I like to think He says something like what Papa says in “The Shack” “Oh _____, I'm particularly fond of him/her.” But I think it's really more like “So and so! I LOVE him/her SO MUCH!!!” and He gets a tear in His eye just at the thought of us. I've heard my pastor say before that we don't really believe that God loves us. Unfortunately that is true all too often. I don't think we are as sure of God's love as we should be. I know I'm not. We get so lost in us, us, us. And that just makes trouble! But when we think of Him, Him, Him and rest in His immeasurable, incomprehensible, unconditional love life never seemed more beautiful.

So, I thank God for what He taught me, for what He taught and showed to all the moms and Him once more for His awesome grace and unending love.

Tuesday, May 24, 2011

Tico Tuesday, May 24th

The most obvious highlight of this past week was my cousin's wedding. This was another one of those cousins that is more like a sister than a cousin, so it was really special for me to be there at her wedding. It was sweet and beautiful and everything a dream wedding should be. There were even horse and carriage rides as party favors for the guests! I enjoyed helping bring down the stuff from the bride room after the party broke up. This was the easiest way to bring her enormous cathedral veil down! My cousin's wedding also allowed me to get to see my mom (YAAY!!!) and a host of other relatives, share with the children at my aunt and uncle's church who pray for Roblealto and me and go kayaking and swimming. More on my trip to the States in my Chronicle next week. I just got home and have to get up early for work in the morning!
With love,
Carrie

Tuesday, May 17, 2011

Tico Tuesday, May 17th

Happy Tuesday to you all!! I had the opportunity to spend the last few days with my brother and his family. I had a wonderful time drawing, playing Chutes and Ladders, reading and bowling with my sobrinos (nephews and niece-we don’t have a word in English that includes both genders). It was really good to be with them and get some quality time with my brother and sister-in-law as well. We had some wonderful conversations. God really worked out the timing of my trip. On the one hand, it was a little sad because everyone (but me) got sick and was low on energy. But on the other hand, it was great because I was able to help take care of the children when Sarah wasn’t doing so well and Daniel needed to be doing other things. So I’m very glad I was there and able to be of service in a time of need. I’m also glad I got to see my great aunt and uncle and the Carrie for whom I was named. More on the blog (including pictures of the rest of my sobrinos)!

Love,

Carrie

I LOVE CHICAGO!! Ok, not so much the corruption part and witnessing a guy steal the map off the L (metro train). But I LOVED Buckingham Fountain and just walking around a big beautiful city.

San Jose is definitely not a beautiful city. It is small and it is quite dirty. Don’t wonder why you hear more about the jungles and beaches. Anyway, I met up with Carrie in Chicago and we had a great chat and I really enjoyed soaking in big beautiful cityness. She is such an amazing woman!

Getting to hang out with Aunt Melanie and Uncle Alfred for an evening was great too. The original plan was for them to come over for dinner, but due to the stomach bug, we decided to not put them at risk. So they took me out for

Thai food and then to the Chocolate Factory. YUM!!! I was glad to see them for a whole evening: last time I saw them they could only stay for about 5 minutes since they had another engagement.

I love getting to be with Daniel and his family. I feel like every visit is better than the last. The kids get older and we can have richer interactions and I just get to bond with everyone. I really enjoyed getting to have time just with Dan and Sarah during naptime and after kid bedtime and before adult bedtime. We had some great conversations and an amazing game of Catan. I loved drawing with Ezra and Agnes, reading to and playing with Isaiah and holding and feeding Nathan. I love my family!

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Tico Tuesday, May 10th


No high walls and closed gates. No palm trees. Big spacious yards. Tulips. Delicious smelling LILACS!!!! My dear bike path with quaking aspen, white tailed deer and Wolf Creek. Almost no litter. Sunset at almost 9pm.

I am having a wonderful trip to the States! This first leg in Western PA is now wrapping up and tomorrow I'll head to my brother's house in IN. I'm so excited to meet my youngest nephew! In the meantime, having a little bit of reverse culture shock in PA has been fun. All the flora and fauna here and so different and I have been able to enjoy them even more with Keegan, my dear friend and biophile. Keegan has been a wonderful hostess. I have also been able to see a number of other special people, including my other college roommate and her adorable daughters, lots of people from church and the last class of students I actually still know. It has been a delightful time of sharing, beautiful runs and walks, and enjoyment of God's great, diverse creation. I LOVE getting to talk about Roblelato and my amazing life in Costa Rica and learn some about how my friends here are doing and what God has been doing in their lives as well.

God bless you and may you get outside to enjoy His creation this week!

Love,

Carrie

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

Tico Tuesday, May 3rd

“Is he yours?” That is the question I heard many times on Sunday afternoon. It was the Día del Egresado (Special Day for people who have been in the Bible Home). There was a special service in the morning and later there was a whole lot of food and fun for everyone! I ran in to my friend Ulli and was helping her keep an eye on the boys. On multiple occasions after chasing after one, people would ask me “Oh, is he your son?” Thankfully, no. Yes friends of mine are married and with kids, even people who are younger than me now are getting married and having babies, so it's not an unfair question to ask. But I am definitely not a mother.... yet. :-) Anyway, on Sunday afternoon it was fun to run into all sorts of people I know, especially the kids who are currently there.

Before leaving I went up to one of the houses to say hi to the substitute mom. Some of the girls in her house had put a little choreography together to a Christian hip hop song, so they performed it for those of us who were hanging around the house. It was so cute and really well done for girls their age!!

What a great day!

So, if you have kids, enjoy them! If you don't, find some to play with and have a blast!

Next Tico Tuesday will come to you from Grove City, PA! :-)

Love,

Carrie

Monday, May 2, 2011

Do the World a Favor: Listen!

I listened to a great sermon the other day about listening (the one called Please Listen). How important that is! What a gift it is to have someone listen to me! And I know that I too can give that gift to others. So often we feel the need to talk when what we really should do is shut our traps and just let someone else be heard. Really. It is a means of grace to others.
And listening doesn't just bless others- it glorifies God too.
Speaking of God, I encourage us to listen to Him too. Most of the time we do ALL the talking and don't even think about the possibility of letting Him get a word in edgewise. And sometimes when we do hear something from Him, we ignore it. I'll confess my guilt of this. The other day I was driving up to visit a friend. Something inside said, "Hmm, I'm going past the grocery store. I should call my friend and see if she needs anything." I came up with excuses not to stop though-I've offered before and she's almost always said no, there's a lot of traffic, I should just hurry up and get there, etc. Well, I get to the house and lo and behold, she was planning on having zucchini with dinner but what she thought was zucchini was actually cucumbers. I should have called! It's just a "silly" little story, but I really believe it wasn't just me, but a spiritual nudge to call and see if she needed anything at the grocery store.
Now, I have stories from the other end too. Recently, I have had conversations (spoken and written) with 3 separate people who all told me something along the lines of "I didn't have peace" or "I was concerned for you about something..." And boy do I wish those people would have spoken up regarding their concern for me!!! God places these burdens on our hearts for a reason!! If we want to be God's instruments, we must listen and obey, no matter how small it may seem. Even if it's just for a zucchini. I'm not trying to super-spiritualize life here. But I think sometimes we profane it all too much. Profane as in not just underspiritualize, but de-spiritualize. I think we can find a healthy balance between desensitivity and hypersensitivity. But we have to listen. This is something I want to learn and practice and I invite you to join me- listening to others and listening to- and obeying- that still small voice inside. Sshhhh!